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    • Personal TherapySacramento Individual Therapist What are your gifts? What are your strengths? It is my belief that everyone has unique strong points and we have an inner drive toward using them. We want to be appreciated for exactly who we are, without hiding or pretending. We want to relax into our own shoes, put down the weight of others’ expectations, and drop the limiting beliefs we have adopted. When we can do that, that’s when we begin to pick up our real work in the world and feel truly joyous, because we are living authentically and we know our life matters. That’s when our relationships become marked by real emotional connection, comfort, and fun! Even if it’s hard to hear that true voice, if you’ve gotten into a habit of letting others dictate your choices, if your confidence has been lost under the weight of life’s pressures and busyness, I still believe you have real power that is unique to you, and I would like to help you find it. Using traditional talk therapy, mindfulness and behavior techniques, and EMDR, I have worked with people who suffer from anxiety, depression, childhood abuse, losses, sexual trauma, some eating disorders, addictions, and unstable relationships. Have you been…
    • Grief CounselingSacramento Grief Counseling Do you love someone who is gone? Have you lost the thing you thought defined you? Were there dreams and plans that never materialized? There are many kinds of losses: Death Divorce Job Loss Pet Loss Loss of confidence Infirtility Lost innocence… and when we lose something, we feel grief. Because everyone loves differently, everyone grieves differently. There is no right way.  But sometimes grief is so powerful, you need a guide to help navigate you through it. When Someone Dies You may feel shocked, or confused. You may feel sadness, anger, loneliness, or shakiness. Then there may be times when you laugh honestly and openly. All of this is normal. Yet sometimes issues of  self-blame, unanswered questions, and feelings of guilt become overwhelming. Tragic and very sudden deaths often bring complicated layers of feelings. I can provide you with strategies to manage the intensity of these emotions, so that you can move through the process of mourning and still live your life. There is often a spiritual awareness when someone dies and I am happy to incorporate your own faith into the therapy.  So many things change when someone dies. It is nice to have greater comforts at hand. When losses are Old When children experience death, hard…
    • EMDR Therapy for TraumaSacramento Trauma and EMDR Therapist One of the leading treatments to relieve the negative effects of psychological trauma is EMDR. EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing.  It is a method of psychotherapy that has been extensively researched and shown to be effective for the treatment of trauma.  When a person is very upset, their brain cannot process information as it does ordinarily. One moment becomes “frozen in time,” and remembering a trauma may feel as bad as going through it the first time. This is because the images, sounds, smells, and feelings associated with the memory haven’t changed.  These traumatic memories can have lasting negative effects that interfere with the way a person sees the world and the way they relate to other people. Sometimes people can feel “triggered” or “hooked.” They have a strong gut-dropping reaction to something they think should be manageable.  EMDR may be able to help with this as well. Following successful EMDR treatment, a person may no longer “relive” the images, sounds, and feelings associated with the trauma when the event is brought to mind. You still remember what happened, but it is less emotionally disturbing. Depending on how comfortable you are with EMDR, it can often…
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Read more about the article What Are You Trying to Say?

What Are You Trying to Say?

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  • Post published:June 25, 2013
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A couple walks up to a restaurant with their two small children. The couple looks weary, as couples with small children sometimes do.  The kids are excited because it’s the…

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Read more about the article Anxiety is not a Tattoo; It’s an Emotion.

Anxiety is not a Tattoo; It’s an Emotion.

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  • Post published:May 31, 2013
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And my Oscar nomination goes to Iron Man III for its unabashed depiction of anxiety. If super heroes can get panicky, then panic isn't just for losers. Panic happens to…

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Read more about the article When Someone is Grieving

When Someone is Grieving

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  • Post published:April 18, 2013
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Most problems have a foreseeable solution to work toward. If you have a phobia of heights, there’s a good chance therapy can reduce, or even reverse it. If you lose…

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Arrivederci! Claiming Vacation.

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  • Post published:March 15, 2013
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Expedia, however self-servingly, does a study every year on vacation deprivation. Apparently, their 2012 study showed that America still takes the least amount of vacation. Our employers give us less…

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Read more about the article Fifty Ways to Treat Yourself Kindly
Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things. Frank A. Clark

Fifty Ways to Treat Yourself Kindly

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  • Post published:February 20, 2013
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   Take 3 to 5 daily to promote good feelings.                 1. Listen to music 26. Stretch 2. Take your vitamins 27. Shop…

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Read more about the article Cooking Up a Family from Scratch, Part 2

Cooking Up a Family from Scratch, Part 2

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  • Post published:January 31, 2013
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All moms have days when they feel like they're just winging it. Some moms do their best work that way! This is part two of a series about things to…

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You are unique, and if that is not fulfilled, then something has been lost. – Martha Graham

Cooking Up a Family from Scratch – Part 1

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  • Post published:January 15, 2013
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  All moms feel a little clueless at times. Then there are moms who feel like they’re trying to cook up a family from scratch, with no recipe. Because their…

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Grief is Love

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  • Post published:December 18, 2012
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Grief is love.  It is love for someone who is gone. When the feelings of loss are so strong that they brim over, that is you expressing great love. I…

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“My Family is Nuts!”

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  • Post published:November 10, 2012
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In my version, we all hold hands around the table, smile lovingly, and share how grateful we all are for the selfless, meaningful things we’ve done for each other all…

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Read more about the article What’s Right With You?
“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.” -Marcel Proust

What’s Right With You?

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  • Post published:October 16, 2012
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I was at a mental health conference a few years back. The talk was on traumatic stress. The first thing the speaker did was to divide the room in half,…

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